We conquered our greatest mission since being here! Yesterday I finally got J and Z on the subway BY MYSELF. I strapped Z on in the baby carrier and we were off. Our destination was Central Park, and we made it there in great time and even had a picnic under the trees on the Great Lawn. I have to say, I'm pretty darn proud of myself. It wasn't easy lugging Z, the diaper bag, and the double stroller down the steps while holding J's hand... but it wasn't terribly difficult either. I can't count how many people offered to help us- and it made all the difference. I was feeling especially empowered and declined the offers, mostly because I wanted to know that I could actually do it on my own in the event that no one does offer. But just knowing that so many kind hearts are out there even in this busy, crazy city really makes me feel at ease and more at home. I really, truly love it here. More than I ever thought possible.
Once we got to the park and sat down for our picnic lunch, I nearly burst into tears. Such a happy moment in time... sitting in Central Park with my two best friends, my babies. Feeling like I could do anything if I wanted to. Mostly feeling safe and happy, and knowing that even though we are so far away from all of our family, friends and everything familiar, we can forge ahead and make new friends and memories.
Z turned one this past weekend, and we have had a lot of house guests. My mom, my in laws, my dad & his wife, and some friends have either been here or are coming. I haven't had a lot of time to check in here, or do anything on the computer for that matter. There is something on my heart that I want to bring to your attention, and I will try to post in the next couple of days, but until then can you please keep
this family in your prayers?
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Jessica, yay for you! When I was in D.C. recently (I traveled alone with my two kids!) we took the subway - me and the kids, plus diaper bag, stroller... it was NOT easy... but the feeling of happiness I felt once I realized that we had done it was amazing! Woohoo! Good for you!! Your kids are adorable. How long did you leave your little baby girl in that tire swing for? I would have been so scared!
HURRAH FOR YOU!! I love the picts - I love that your kids are exploring the WORLD! They are benefiting so much from your trust and adventurous spirit! Lucky lucky children indeed, you are such a fantastic momma!
I am behind in reading your posts... cannot wait to catch up!
Also - read the link to the family you shared about. SO heartbreaking...
No Phil & Teds this time?
Loukia- Good for you! I am so glad your trip went well, I had been thinking about you and wondering how it went! It's not glamorous, shlepping all that stuff around, is it?! And about the tire swing, I was scared, but the heavy belly laughs from both kids made it worth while. She was only sitting alone for as long as it too to snap the picture. ;)
Melissa- You always make my day! Love, love, love you.
Nin- We had to get the Twin Maclaren to take on the subway/bus/airplane rides. While they weigh the same, the Phil & Teds is far too cumbersome (esp with the second seat flailing around) to carry with one arm- and doesn't fold as well. I still use it every day though, it is great for walks around the city. I wouldn't use the Maclaren for long walks if I can avoid it. Bottom line- I am lucky to have both strollers, they are great.
good job! I would be so nervous to get around new York with my kids by myself. You impress me so much
SO proud of you!!! You are adjusting so quickly and I am so so so happy for you guys! Better than I did when I first moved here.
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